Anonymous: I've just gone through a break up and and I'm so afraid I'll never get over it. :(
I haven’t had a lot of experience with heart break, but I still do know how much it hurts. Last one happened to me about 2 months back, and I’m still learning how to be without that person. Those few days after the break up, I was so sure that I wasn’t going to ever be okay. That I would never get over it. That I wouldn’t be able to move on. That I couldn’t do it alone, that I needed that certain person to get me through the tough stuff in life. That was so completely far from the truth of things. I needed myself, I needed to be there for myself. I’m slowly, slowly getting better and you will eventually, too. I want you to focus on yourself, be there for yourself and love yourself. Bask in your own light. You’re capable of so much more than you think. Don’t listen to too much sad music, and don’t wallow for too long or I’ll have to come over and make you dance to Beyonce with me. Listen to death grips and go for a run or ride a bike and remember how powerful you are. Talk to someone, if you don’t have anyone to talk to, write it down. It’s important, and you need to get it out of yourself. Try not to emotionally eat too much. Take bubble baths, buy yourself things. Never feel bad for self-care. Never feel bad for putting yourself first. Make art of any kind, be creative rather than destructive. I know it’s easy to want to isolate yourself, but it’s so important to focus on not doing that. Nurture other relationships in your life. I promise once you start letting go of all the negative things your feeling, beautiful things will begin to happen. Get out of your head for a while, read a book, watch a good film, or even go out and have some fun. I know you’re aching, but please push yourself. The world is so big and so fun and there are so many things to experience and people to meet. I know it’s hard to think that way now because it’s so contrary to how absolute and crushing the feelings are, but you are smart enough to know that realistically, this will not last forever. You just need to keep working at it. You will be okay.
Does anyone annoy me more than my stupid fucking mom? Actually yeah there’s this one person but fuck him. Fuck you both. I hate you both